Ladies Please Answer? Do you ever suspect that some of your married friends live the swinger lifestyle & put?

on the wholesome family front to friends & family? I went to the couples swinger convention last week & most of the couples that lived this lifestyle have happy marriages ranging from 10 to 20 years. How would you react if a married couple that you really looked up to swing with other couples. Would it piss you off? And what would turn you off from swinging?