Could this be why swingers so so popular these days?

So I was bored and thinking these days almost 70% of people are parasites and scum. Look at the stereotypical young guy who has no job, doesn't want to take care of his kids unless on his terms, his only interest is to party. And the stereotypical woman who likes to tease every person who comes after her just so she can get all he is willing to give here. My point is the majority of people hate other people as it is, muchless the ones these days. So how can someone really expect you to love a parasite. I think this is why so many people are just going to casual sex. Good people are very rare to find this day in time.